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Sure, you've gone out with 20, 30 women. But we're willing to wager
that you're actually dating the same woman over and over again. We
often return to similar patterns, to familiar personalities and modes
of interacting.
Not only does dating the same type of woman become boring, it also
doesn't allow you to evolve. But with our roster of classic womanly
personalities as a guide, we'll help you figure out what it is that
you're attracted to, why you may be stuck in that pattern and what you
could be missing out on - both romantically and sexually - by not
mixing up your playlist.
The Urban Sophisticate
Her strengths: This woman is funny, hot and spontaneous. When you walk
into a room with her, everyone stares at you in envy. This is the kind
of girl everyone wants and it makes you feel awesome when you're the
one who has her.
Her weaknesses: You need enormous confidence to date a woman like this.
She gets off on attention, but you can't get jealous. If you're
independent you will dig her ambition, but make sure she wants you --
and not just the ego boost you provide.
Her bedroom persona: She's uninhibited and nicely groomed. Tell her you
like her on top, preferably wearing something expensive that makes her
breasts look hot.
The Arty Hipster:
Her strengths: She knows where all the dive bars are, and all the art
shows with free wine. She's exciting and stylish, but not as
untouchable as the Urban Sophisticate. She actually likes nerds and
intellectuals. And she actually cares about culture. This type of woman
can be great for a guy who wants to learn more about art and music.
Her weaknesses: Do you keep going after her because you hope her cool
will rub off on you? If your interests don't match, don't expect to
just coast along on her taste. Girls like this have opinions. And they
want you to know the difference between Hunter S Thompson and Emma
Thompson. Better get reading.
Her bedroom persona: The good news: she's dirty. The bad news: her
bed's not that clean. Tell her that if she changes the sheets before
you come over, you'll take her to see Manu Chao - in Spain.
The Vegan Yoga Gal:
Her strengths: She's got great skin and a long neck, and she gives you
long back rubs with wacky oils. All that deep breathing means she
rarely flies off the handle, and you value this perhaps even more than
you value her amazing, high, tight rear - which is saying a lot. This
is a woman who really wants to make a deep connection with life, and a
man who wants the same could be really into her. Independent,
analytical or creative guys could find her alternative view fascinating.
Her weaknesses: These women are almost exclusively interested in men
who are into the same stuff they are. Love her, love her lifestyle.
Her bedroom persona: She's just as Kama Sutra-esque as you were hoping
- so no quickies. She likes it slow and soulful.
The Alpha Female:
Her strengths: She has no debt, a law degree and a sports car. She's
hard to keep up with. Ironically, it's not the alpha dog who should try
dating her. A scientist, artist or teacher will do well with this
woman. If you're not interested in power plays, she won't fight you.
Her weaknesses: She has a lot in common with alpha males, but these
relationships are too intense. They can't make time for each other.
'Pushover' types are often attracted to such women, and some alpha
females are attracted right back. Obviously, if this is your dynamic,
it isn't good.
Her bedroom persona: She's efficient and skilled, but she can be more
than sufficiently animal if you help her let her guard down.
The Intimacy Junkie:
Her strengths: She goes to yoga, too, but it's the easy kind that's
more about 'connection' to the self than sculpting a smoking body. So
what if she's a little in your face. The sex is amazing. She is the
best kisser in the world. Very intense, very into connecting.
Independent men will love such a deeply verbal gal. Most men need help
learning to communicate. She will teach them how to.
Her weaknesses: The intimacy junkie makes you feel great at first.
She's so: you and your feelings. Analytical men find themselves easily
ensnared in her web. He will be super into her at first, but there's
going to be a lot of talk about the 'meaning' of the relationship,
which may cause it to implode.
Her bedroom persona: She'll do anything, including some things that
scare you. The word 'harness' comes to mind. Tell her you'll do it if
she gets waxed.
The Happy Homemaker:
Her strengths: She's no gold - all she wants is a Volvo station wagon
and a nice, cozy three-bedroom house. She wants to have your kids, take
care of them and take care of you. A man who grew up in a very
traditional household will love her. So will, ironically the guy who
grew up with domestic strife because she'll provide him with the
attention he never had.
Her weaknesses: Remember that she's not going to work. Career-minded
men might be happy with an arrangement that allows them to focus on
their work while she manages their domestic life. But if financial
stress builds, he may not be able to convince her to get a job.
Her bedroom persona: She'll be accommodating and eager at first, less
so with each offspring. Find a good babysitter so the two of you can
steal away.
By Sandra Prior. For more articles on sexual health subscribe to Sandra
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