Everybody wants to be phenomenally successful, no
matter what endeavor they choose to pursue in life. Unfortunately, most
people concoct a grandiose dream of what they'd love to accomplish, but
fail to realize they lack the necessary traits and qualities to make
their dreams come true. Their habits don't align up with what they want
to accomplish. In the end, these people end up with broken dreams and a
life that's a far cry from what they'd love to have.
The term I
like to use - "success superstars" - is a broad term that encompasses
everybody who's successful. Success superstars range from the average
guy who lives down the street with the perfect family, to the award
winning actors and actresses of today. If we could study and figure out
what makes them so successful, we could discover the traits they all
share. And once we do that, we can apply those traits to our own lives
and achieve the same results they have. The people who fall into
Paragraph #1 would then have fulfilled dreams and lives.
The
following list is what I have found all success superstars to have in
common. As you read through it, think of how you can tweak your life to
become more in line with successful people and achieve greater results.
1. Success superstars know exactly what they're after.
Murky
goals and muddled plans are foreign to success superstars - they know
exactly what they want, and nothing can stop them from getting it! You
see numerous examples of this in the fields of music and acting. So
many of those people were lonely, starving, and barely getting by
before they achieved their dreams.
2. Success superstars are highly ambitious, driven, and
motivated.
Success
superstars wake up motivated and charge into the day with drive and
ambition. They know that they are the ones in full control of creating
their reality - from the decisions they make regarding their career, to
the simplistic choices about what they want to eat for lunch. Sitting
around, ruminating reasons for not doing something is unheard of and
foreign to them - when they decide they want something, they get to it!
3. Success superstars don't let themselves become
sidetracked.
Success
superstars fully realize that distractions are always going to appear
at the worst possible times. Distractions range from phone calls during
the day that prevent work from being done, to career opportunities that
don't align with what you want to ultimately accomplish, to unexpected
problems with friends and family. The distractions and sidetrack
problems are dealt with immediately, and success superstars move on
ASAP.
4. Success superstars have amazing friends and family to
back them up.
Success
superstars who are loners are unheard of - they always have an awesome
group of family and friends who are there for them through the ups and
the downs. A strong social network offers help, support, and good
times; all three are found in great family and friends, and success
superstars take advantage of this.
5. Success superstars see roadblocks as objects to break
and smash through.
When
most people wildly chase after their dream and encounter a locked door,
they attempt to open it; when they realize the door is really locked,
people throw their hands in the air and totally give up. Success
superstars don't do this! Instead, success superstars encounter a door,
and brainstorm every possible way to get around it. Will they find the
key to unlock the door somewhere else? Bust the door down? Climb
through the window? Go around the house and go in the back door? Burn
the door down and walk right on through? Tunnel under the house and
into the room, completely surpassing the door? There are endless
possibilities, but only success superstars keep throwing solutions at
the problem until it's solved.
6. Success superstars never, ever give up.
When
the going gets rough, success superstars are fired up even more. Giving
up on dreams and ambitions is never a viable option - success
superstars always find someway to make things happen. They know that
they are the ones who can make their dreams come true, and they reach
for it each and every day. Giving up means giving in and being left
with a shattered dream - this is unacceptable to success superstars.
7. What do you think should go here?
I'm
leaving you with the 6 traits that I believe make up "success
superstar" habits - but what about you? What do you think this list is
lacking? What do you think should be omitted? How could you apply some
of these habits to your own life?
Get working! The success superstar club isn't VIP only!
By Mark David Peters