Excelling under pressure is one of life's most
difficult challenges. The reason is that so much of doing your best in
any particular situation relates to your mental attitude at the very
moment that particular situation arises. In other words, in a pressure
situation, if you honestly think you can, you probably can and if you
truly do not think you can, you probably won't. The other factors are
preparation, ability and just knowing the enemy or the competition.
#1
- Mental attitude - We tend to perform at our best when we are calm,
relaxed and excited and driven by strong belief. The problem with
pressure situations is that they are apt to produce the opposite
tendencies in our minds and hearts. We become negatively excited,
stressed and doubtful - neurological impulses which tend to undermine
our skills and abilities. Thus, the secret is a form of self-hypnosis
which allows you to block these undermining impulses at the key moment
in the pressure situation. You can only block negative, stressful or
undermining thoughts by replacing them with their opposite. You must
have a hypnotic phrase which you employ in pressure situations. That
phrase can be something like "I can do this," I am prepared," or "I
will overcome." One of the above phrases (or another similar to them)
is to be mentally repeated throughout the pressure situation in order
to block undermining thoughts from emerging.
#2 - Preparation -
Pressure situations can be predicted and prepared for. Football teams
do it all the time. That's right, think about possible pressure
situations which may confront you and practice how you would overcome
them. Think about what you would do and how you would do it if a
particular pressure situation was to arise. The military refers to this
as having contingency plans.
#3 - Ability - Ability comes from
experience or stated another way practice, practice, practice. Be good
at what your do. Master your craft. In a world were most people do just
enough to get by, mastering your craft will make you superior - among
the top five percent of the population.
#4 - Know the enemy
(competition or opposing factors) - There are few things better in life
than knowing and having prepared for the enemy, the competition or the
forces which will be opposing you. The words of the ancient Chinese
military philosopher Sun Tzu are appropriate here. He said over 2000
years ago: "Most men get into a fight and try to figure the best way to
win; but the wise man first figures the best way to win and then gets
into the fight."
You can best prepare for pressure situations by
first mastering your craft and then being knowledgeable of the
abilities of the forces which will be opposing you. Those opposing
forces will not just be the immediate competition but also inertia -
old ways of doing things - biases and those who plan to be unfair and
those who benefit from the current situation even if that situation is
harmful to you and most others.
You must be aware all these
forces, prepare for them, stay hard driven by belief or desire and you
will perform well in any pressure situation.