There
are two important ways your self esteem is effected...
External
influences
These
are all of the criticism's that come from outside of yourself. For
example, people, parents, friends, bullies etc...
The
second is...
Internal
Influences
This
is how you treat yourself as a person. How you talk to yourself inside
of your mind, how you feel and the decisions you make.
The
first step to helping yourself gain self esteem is to start protecting
yourself from negative external influences.
Do
your best to protect your dignity and self image. The more you do this
the more your self esteem will increase and you'll start to feel better
about yourself.
The
second step is to start complimenting yourself. Do good things for
yourself that make you feel good. Start thinking positive thoughts
about yourself so you can feel comfortable and get used to feeling
positive feelings.
Even
if you feel like you are not making any progress, the reality is YOU
ARE! The fact is that you have to keep going; The moment you give up is
the moment when your self esteem starts to diminish.
Life
is all about building positive habits that serve you. If you feel bad
about yourself this only means that you have not yet built in positive
habits that work for you automatically.
To
change how you feel and increase your self esteem, you need to start
building positive habits of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that
contribute to your future self esteem success.
You
deserve to spend some time for yourself to increase your self esteem.
You are WORTH the investment and time! So use your energy to start this
process today! Treat yourself right!
To
Your Self Esteem
Success,
Nicholas
Finnegan
P.S.
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