"Build Resolve For Success!"

Do you keep thinking negative thoughts that you can't stop??

Sometimes it is difficult to not think about negative things...

This is what happens with unresolved issues!

There could be a bunch of emotions attached to the experience, and this is set as 'a convincer' of our negative experiences. In other words, the negative emotions is what causes us to think things in that way - and the unresolved issues continue on because of 'negative emotional attachment'.

If you don't feel bad, you probably won't think negatively.

What if however - that whenever you thought of the negative situation you began to laugh at it because it was silly to be that way. This simple switch allows you to move on because you now feel different about what used to be a problem. That's why it's good to have self forgiveness, because the negative feeling gets replaced by a healing feeling which allows you to think about things differently.

Negative thought + positive feeling = positive feeling (convince yourself of something better)

Positive thought + positive feeling = positive feeling (create something better)

Negative thought + negative feeling = shit lol

It's ok to think about things negatively, it's a different story if you 'become' those things.

It is healthy to think about both negative and positive situations alike, the question is, HOW are you thinking about these situations. Do you think about it in terms of "he hurt me" "Life sucks" "I can't move on" "I'm worthless" "why did he do this to me?" etc..

(Doing this only makes the emotions worse and keeps people stuck!)

Or do you think in terms of "how can i look at this situation in a more productive way that helps me to keep my self esteem intact?" "What empowering lessons can I take from this experience?" "How has this situation made me a stronger person?" "How can I approach him/her with more confidence and security?"

(Doing this opens new doors of possibility!)

Nobody expects you to think to 'positively' all the time, because that doesn't really work anyway!

Instead, it's useful to gain RESOLVE for negative experiences!

To resolve your issues means to unbind, break free, transform, re-organize... into pure energy for your peace of mind, well being and self respect.

If you have resolve, then it's not a matter of positive or negative thinking anymore. It becomes a skill that you can use to solve problems while you learn and expand your frame of mind!

Using resolve, as an approach, will let you handle negative situations more easily. Then, eventually you get to live your life life feeling good, and if the occasional life challenge or situation comes your way, you can handle it with resolve!

Life isn't about being in control of people and it isn't about 'never' feeling bad, it's about enhancing and utilizing your mind in ways that allow you to create a happier and more successful life-style.

There will always be problems in life. - these problems create challenges, these challenges create solutions. And these solutions create new (better quality problems) which in tern create more challenges and then more solutions... and the spiral goes on....

Having Resolve is the key to all this!

If you can think about negative things in more productive ways, then more power to you!

Your mind already has the resource of resolve inside of you (and any other resource you want), so start utlizing them to your benefit.

It's in your power to do so, nobody else can do it for you!

Think in terms of - convincing yourself, of having the qualities you need, to live a better quality of life, for yourself.

This is all bout self awareness!

With the right attitudes you can think about the most scariest and weirdest things, but that doesn't mean you have to engage in them, and worse, make them a part of who you were 'gulp' lol! ;)

What kinds of attitudes could you cultivate to look at negative situations in your life in ways that make you feel better? Have resolve!

It's your mind, make life as exciting as you want it to be! :)







To your new life and love,

Nicholas Finnegan
Author of Higher Self Esteem and More...