To Handle Arrogant
article will show you how to handle arrogant
people are not so confident
as they may seem to be. They tend
to cause arguments and pick on other people because they themselves are
insecurity could originate from a lack of attention from
childhood, it could come from being bullied or it could come from
seeking validation because they don’t know how to validate
themselves as individuals.
usually want to be praised for everything they do, even if what
they do can be done by anybody else easily.
you need to understand about arrogant people is that they are
driven by two forces. Validation and de-validation. Whenever they bully
they seek to validate themselves or seek to be validated by others.
the other side, whenever they feel de-validated it will cause them
to feel insecure and defeated.
can easily get arrogant people on your side by praising them and
validating what they do as awesome. They will immediately warm to you
because they are fuelled by validation from you, they will want to have
you as their friend.
get an arrogant person to leave you alone you must learn to de-value
his/her attempts to act cool. You must make him realize that everything
he/she does is a complete waste of his/her time and messing with you
will only cause him/her to lose.
best way to de-value an arrogant person without stooping down to
their level is to have good self esteem. Your self esteem within itself
will cause you to feel immune to arrogant comments and the arrogant
individual will learn to give up.
you don’t have good self esteem just yet, you could do
some of the following techniques on them..
could try raising an eyebrow at their comments as if he/she was a
complete loser for attempting to bully you. A look of disapproval or a
‘shaking of the head’ will cause them to feel like
they lost immediately.
could ask “What exactly is your point here?”
“What exactly are you trying to do?” this will
cause them to either fess up to their manipulative attempts or cower at
the fact that they were trying to compensate for their lack of self
could also give them the ‘yes’ treatment. You
do this by agreeing with everything they say in a slightly undermining
tone ‘yes that’s nice’ ‘Oh
really, good for you mate’ “yup, thumps up
mate!’ ‘Yeah ok, that’s great (roll your
will cause them to slowly give up on trying to bully you aswell.
of all, learning to ignore bullying behaviour with self confidence
and self security is your best bet. Rolling your eyes can be great fun
and nothing is more gratifying then seeing that look of defeat in their
not to mistake that these people are not also human beings too;
Remember, they are dealing with their own difficulties in life, so make
sure you don’t become the bully yourself as a result of
getting rid of your bully.
you can learn to laugh with the bully you will find that you will
get along with arrogant people much more easily, since you will learn
not to take their remarks so seriously. Stay firm and do it for your
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How do I know about any of this? Because I used to be the bully. I have
been studying myself and other people since childhood. Social banter
has always been one of my best skills. Sometimes it could get out of
hand and cause trouble. I gave it up because I found it’s
much more better to be polite, plus since teenage years I have raised
my self esteem beyond levels I could have never imagined quickly. To do
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