Dealing With Negative People!

Something happened to me earlier-on…

Today I met a friend that I haven’t seen in years. We talked for a while and he proceeded to tell me how bad life is, how it’s impossible to live in these economical conditions and complained about everything he could possibly think of.

Generally there are two types of people in life, those who seek greater opportunities, and those who focus on negativity.

If you focus on problems, it is guaranteed that your going to find more of them. If you focus on solutions, it is also guaranteed that you will find more solutions.

Our focus tends to determine which visions we make in our minds and what outcomes we are able to achieve.

There will always be something positive to focus on, no matter how unreasonable the situation may seem.

Have you ever heard of victor frankl? A Jewish man who lived in Nazi Germany and his family was taken to a concentration camp?

Instead of thinking about how awful the situation was, he focused on what good could come out of this situation. He presented the situation to his son as a game and they eventually survived.

He began to find meaning in all forms of existence, even the bad ones, and thus found a reason to continue on living.

Whichever directions you focus on (with curiosity) – you will find solutions, no matter how awful the situation may seem.

You could be broke, have a terrible relationship or low self esteem; focus starts with you having a goal in mind and ask questions that give you solutions to achieve that goal more easily

Those who tend to break through problems, focus on what they want to manifest and do not allow any external influences to determine where their focus is held upon.

With this ability you have your destiny in your hands – you focus your mind on what you want to move towards, with a pre-supposition that it’s going to work.

Ask yourself this: Do you control events? or do events control you?

If you are reacting to stimulus, you are not in control, and when your not in control, your not going to be happy.

Use focus to find solutions to problems in life that hinder your success, so you can move forwards, despite external influences or negativity, and achieve your goals by becoming curious about what you want to manifest.

Don’t become a product of your environment, make your environment a signification of who you truly desire to become!

So what happened to my friend? Well, I started to tell him most of what I told you just now. He laughed and continued to profess that people don’t change, the government controls most of the wealth in this country and that the system is rigged against us?…

I want better for you; Know that YOU are in control of your own thoughts and your own destiny. Never buy into judgements from external influences and always respond in ways that continuously enriches your future success.
 
To Your Confidence and Life Success,
 
Nicholas Finnegan

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