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Do you worry that your spouse is cheating on you? Have you seen some
suspicious activity and aren't sure what it means or maybe you just
need some confirmation that what you are seeing is real.
If you are feeling that something is wrong, then there is a good chance
that you are right. It is important to learn the signs and if your
suspicions are right, you need to learn strategies and methods for
dealing with the emotional pain.
You have to ask yourself the question; do you want to save the
relationship and get your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend back or do
you want to let it go? This will require some soul searching, but it
will be important to act quickly before it is too late. Finding out in
the early stages of cheating give you a better chance of mending the
relationship than if you wait until the distance between you widens to
the stage where divorce becomes inevitable. All relationships are
salvagable, if you want it bad enough.
Here are some warning signs that your significant other is cheating: ~
The cheating spouse tends to be more attentive to the other spouse at
the beginning of an affair, due to the guilt of cheating.
~ In order to justify the affair a cheating spouse will often find
fault with the other spouse.
~ Cheating spouses lose interest in the activities at home. They may
even lose interest in you and the children. The house may begin to show
signs of disrepair, including dirty dishes, laundry, lawn care and
other simple house repairs that used to get fixed.
~ You simply "feel" like something is wrong. This usually is a good
sign that something "is" wrong and you should check it out. ~ Your sex
life changes. You may have more or less sex then usual and the cheater
will make unusual sexual requests. ~ There is an obvious change in
attitude towards everyone in the house, expecially the other spouse.
Everything becomes your fault and the cheater has a more angry
demeanour. ~ Finances are suspicious. You find unusual expenses,
receipts, credit card bills or unusual amounts of cash in the wallet.
~ Grooming habits change. Cheaters tend to pay more attention to their
personal appearance...like they are trying to impress someone. They may
dress differently, groom their hair differently, switch colognes or
perfume, etc... ~ Often there is evidence left behind. Look for
lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume, underwear stains.
Also check wallets or glove compartments for receipts, paper with phone
numbers, addresses, condoms, etc.
~ You may find some red flags by monitoring your spouse for a couple of
weeks. Keep track of the mileage in the car, the time they leave and
come home from work. This should help establish a pattern. If your
spouse claims to be working overtime, check the paystub for extra
income. ~ Listen carefully to home phone calls. Your spouse might begin
to whisper, leave the room or give quick answers and immediately hang
when you come in the room.
~ Check your spouses cell phone for suspicious and unrecognizable phone
numbers. Check for frequency and length of the call. Also check the
cell phone bill and look for the first number called when your spouse
leaves for work and the last number called before your spouse returns
home.
~ When a female has an affair they tend to have a "glow" about them.
They are also more discreet in their affair and selection of lovers.
By John Morgan. If you can identify any of these signs you might have a
cheating spouse. Don't wait until it is too late to save your
relationship. Learn important strategies
and techniques for dealing with the emotional pain and for
saving your relationship. Watch these free
videos to learn how.
Enjoy
your life,
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